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Domina Visuki is a wild night Creature, a Natural Born Dominatrix, a TRUE SADIST, a MuSiCiAN and ARTiST, a CAT LOVER  and adrenaline FREAK constantly in need for STIMULATION; possibly aggressively in-your-face-opinionated, with NEVER enough middle-fingers to flip-off EVERYTHING representing authority - unless it's MINE, which you'll have NO CHOICE but to RESPECT ['Respect MY AUTHORITY!!"Cartman style, YES!]. BUT, ABOVE ALL, I'm a punk-rocker at heart who, long ago now, chose to LIVE on the EDGE and still loves it (as much as - most importantly - BELIEVES IN IT).  The Alternative World is My Playground, the Dark Sides of Fetish are where I thrive, and what thrills Me the most is the process of purification I deem necessary in order for you (sub or slave) to TRULY SUBMIT and SURRENDER to a Supreme Female; this is achieved through strict discipline, psychological re-programming, physical pain, body conditioning and mind-control. Having said that, however, as a Pro-Domme I do understand not ALL subs/slaves can commit to a Regular Training Program, so provided the BASIS of My approach to BDSM are understood and interests for the Activities I offer are shared, I will consider limiting the involvement of SEVERE Corporal Punishment or other EXTREME KiNKS/FETiSHES to a low level - as long as previously dicussed.

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"Fetish" to Me isn't dressing up for the club once a month, its a tree which branches and roots never stop growing and expanding, a multitude of concepts, an attitude statement covering NOT ONLY BDSM, but all aspects of life, from the every day to the Arts, where pretentiousness, fakery, the consumeristic race//materialistic gain//social status bullshit and the posers who feed on such crap have no place AT ALL.

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Since childhood I always craved (and mostly gained) control and Dominance over others, whether it concerned picking what games we were to play, who were to lead the study group, or convincing everyone to get naked for "inspection" before simulating an "interrogation scene" (My very favourite since the tender age of 8 years-old)... so, in hindsight, I was a Lifestyle Domme LONG before I recognised that some of the dynamics embedded deeply into Me spoke the language of FemDom and BDSM; since then My Fetish Journey grew into more defined and specific directions and taste, until eventually, just over 10 years ago (and after just as many years spent experimenting and perfecting My skills), it became clear to Me that BDSM wasn't just a temporary fancy, so exploring the Pro-Domme Universe was the logical next step, with the extra bonus of being able to pick My own working hours and fit them into My busy musician schedule and lifestyle.

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what I AM NOT:

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femdom, findom, bdsm, humiliation, domina visuki

                           Unconventionally Alternative, Fiercely Dominant, Charismatically Passionate, IN-YOUR-FACE opinionated, CATS Obsessed (ALL FeLiNEs + ChEETAs too);  a musician + stage freak,  an artist, Martial Arts LoveR  and ADrenaline Addict; a Natural Born Sadist,  ThE QuEEN of ALL DARKEST FANTASiEs & FeTiShEs, a KeEN DiSCiPLiNARiAN & CoRPoraL PuNiShMEnT FREAK.

what I AM:

A FUCKiNG POSER,  a Hypocrite, a BRaiNLeSS MoRon TERRiFiED of INDIVIDUALITY, MinD-RAPeD beyond redemption by ReALiTy-TV; a plastic surgery disaster REPLICANT DESPERATELY seeking SEXUAL validation; a sheeple follower polluting Earth's GENE-POOL with populistic nationalism; an opportunistic ASSHOLE; a STRAiGHT-EDGE and/or VEGAN PReAChER;  a HOOkER with a WHiP. 

femdom, findom, domina visuki, flip-off fetish

"I feed on your pain and submission, the same way I feed on the energy of a cheering crowd whilst on stage...or on the deep gratification provided by writing music or creating art"..

              and the result is an extreme STATE

where dopamine, endorphines and adrenaline FUSE together into a unique NATURAL HIGH.

music via fetish

Playing music is My ULTIMATE REASON to LIVE (besides love//sex//BDSM, My CAtS//ALL Cats & drawing), but My real ADDiCTiON is performing LiVE. I LOVE (as much as I NEED) the EMPOWERING FEELING that being on stage brings Me, as a sort of vessel connecting My TRUE ESSENCE to My PERFORMiNG PERSONAS, giving meaning to My narcissism, delivering a show just as much as exposing My vulnerabilities; this is what playing on stage AND playing in a BDSM scene have in common, and through the years I realised  a crowd of hundreds of people requires the same level of charismatic confidence and leading strength as ONE single slave.

 

I love the anticipation, the stomach churning, the adrenaline, the explosive energy that gushes through My veins whilst I'm jumping and shouting through that mic, blinded by the spotlights and My own sweat dripping down My make-up smudged face, feeling like I'm becoming ONE with My bass as My fingertips bleed, connecting on a totally different level with My band mates, absorbing the collective ENERGY from every single person in the crowd and pumping it all back, like shooting fireworks through a cannon....

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AND THESE are extremely similar to those EXHILARATING FEELINGS I experience during  POWER-EXCHANGE BDSM SCeNES....perhaps it's that  unconteinable rush of pleasure that takes over Me whilst I tug on the chain attached to your collar with one hand, and FIERCELY crack My favourite bullwhip on your already scarlet bottom, with the "falls" inevitably wrapping around your tighs, and as your agonising screams turn into a muffled gurgle through the ball-gag tightly fitted into your mouth, My chuckle of delight becomes loud unsettling laughter..

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unconventiona l
d omi ina trix...

So, as you probably understood so far, My alternative personality and attitude to life - and BDSM, get REFLECTED by My unique style that, although incorporating traditional DOMME-attires such as PVC, LEATHER and LATEX, also includes a lot of broken fishnets, denim, lace, mesh, metal studs and chains merged in clothes that I personally alter, creating MY OWN customised outfits (besides, of course, a few piercings and some ink that have been part of Me for many years now, and fully BECOME ME).

My raven black hair and My huge, inquisitive EYES, cutting through your thoughts as the sharpest daggers, as well as My intriguing accent, firm hand and strict attitude, often drive subs and slaves to describe Me as particularly INTIMIDATING... what should worry you, however, isn't My appearance, BUT My wickedly sadistic and merciless nature, My twisted imagination and My - mostly sudden - TERRIFYING MOOD CHANGES.

However, although I do love keeping in character during specific Scenarios, I also enjoy conducting Sessions with a less formal attitude, shall a slave favour such settings - or when I detect the need for it in order to mantain trust and minimise anxiety with individuals lacking clarity about their preferences and/or limits awareness.

HENCE it is of the UTMOST IMPORTANCE for subs/slaves to be COMPLETELY HONEST regarding their level of EXPERIENCE, their specific KINKS, AND WHAT THEY WISH TO EXPLORe and/or achieve. 

This is to allow Mistress to assess the level of compatibility in advance thus planning, building and conducting the Session in relation to that (amongst other) factors - if not declining to grant Training at ALL, THAT IS. NATURALLY.

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       No boring shit.
although you will read it either way. and shut up.)

What to expect
  and PRepare for

Shall ARNyou bravely step into the void surrounding the (perhaps unfamiliar) grounds that My approach to BDSM delivers, BE READY for a  more demanding concept of Dominant Female, Life-Style just as much as Pro-Domme, requesting a much deeper involvement to its sort of uniquely polished roughness which screams of a reality truly on the edge, that will PUNCH YOU IN THE FACE and EXPLODE IN YOUR EARS, BLIND YOU, GRAB YOU, SHAKE YOU, REACH THROUGH YOUR STOMACH AND HOOK YOUR NECK FROM THE INSIDE, relentlessly pulling and pushing you around like a rag-doll...
...I will infect your brain, implanting fragments of an existence too hard to even grasp by many, and, if you're worthy, I will make you crave experiencing the full vision, not only snippets of it..

AND iT WiLL BE TOO LATE when you'll suddenly realise it is NOT ONLY  Mistress you are HOPELESSLY ADDICTED to, but, after you faced it once, you will NEED to return more and more to a much deeper "SuB-SPaCE" arising from a TOP-BOTTOM connection based on the most visceral and instinctual emotions that all of a sudden you are able to dig out of your foggy subconscious AND identify as your (most likely sexually driven) Fetishes and Fantasies.


You will LEARN to UNDERSTAND the PoWERFUL MAGNiTUDE of your WiLDEST KiNKS, and EMBRACE THEM rather than FEAR THEM or BE CONFUSED  by (IF NOT EVEN ASHAMED of )them.

You will find yourself desperately seeking that state, that "SuB-SPaCE"  OVER and OVER...
until you DO FIND IT into that ONE more lash
of My favourite double-tailed whip you thought you couldn't bear, but Mistress knew better and ignored your pleading for mercy, and hits you again regardless, until that intense burning AWAKENS something in you...
and all the pieces fit.

OR into a particularly intense SENSORY DEPRIVATION scene, where blindfolded, hooded, immobilised with ropes and only Mistresse's voice to follow through headphones whilst She's pouring wax on the only part of your body left exposed, pain and fear all of a sudden become awareness... and the circle shuts.


OR after Mistress made you dance for Her amusement dressed like a ballerina but wearing a pig mask, spat on you, slapped you, degraded you for an hour, made you polish Her boots with your tongue, made you eat the ash of her cigarette and dragged you around on a leash and ignored you whilst talking on the phone to another KiCK-ASS DoMiNA, describing how FUCKING PATHETIC you are, all of a sudden She orders you to look into Her eyes and gives you an ever so quick and light gentle caress on your cheek..THEN She barks again at you to get into Position 3 and STAY THERE till She commands otherwise, and you suddenly are aware you are the happiest you have been for the longest fucking time...and the fog dissipates.

I was born in Venice, Italy, and My father being a blues drummer, I grew up listening to rock, jazz and blues, and later on, metal and punk. My first approach to a musical instrument was at 8 years old through Classical Piano, which I still play and adore, and which I studied at the Conservatory Of Music for over 10 years (first in Venezia, then Padova and the last two years in Castelfranco Veneto - Italy), as I devotedly followed My Maestro Di Toma as  he got transferred from one Co0nservatory to the other, and which 

 

After obtaining a degree in Fine Arts, I played jazz professionally for a few years, whilst teaching Ear Training, Musical Theory and Harmony at a very progressive Jazz School in Venice ("Il Suono Improvviso", currently into its 35th year of activity); despite winning a Scholarship to Berkeley College Of Music in Boston, US, whilst attending the summer Clinics "Umbria Jazz" in Perugia, i opted for relocating to London instead, where I focused on electric bass - and MUCH heavier sounds.

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A few years and a bunch of different bands later (from Metal to Industrial to Hard-core to Punk), I formed with Master My current band (Power-Violence/Crossover-Thrash/Hardcore-Punk with Metal elements), a FAST-AS-FUCK/in-your-FACE/skills-requiring-riffs 4 piece, adding to the mix an intense visual/performance component aimed at provoking and shocking audiences, with an OFFENSIVE LEVEL as high as  "BORDERLINE-INCARCERATION-GUARANTEED-type-of-shit" (and proud of it), which we have been touring the UK and Europe for the past 10 years, and, with Master being from California originally, we are in the process of bringing to the U.S. (with a parallel Domina Visuki "Take Your Fetish Back" Tour in very few selected locations).

 

And it's exactly the rough side of TOURING (loading and unloading heavy equipment/endless hours in the tour-van/sleeping on floors and more drinking than eating) that helped Me forging the stamina I could NOT do without during My ALWAYS INTENSE and NEVER DULL SESSIONS. The inescapable social mingling and zero personal space also taught Me how to read body language and quickly tune My senses to non-verbal communication, which is a PRECIOUS TOOL, I later realised, during BDSM exchanges involving extreme physical and/or psychological interactions and their (almost inevitable) highly emotional outcome...

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Throw into the mix the discipline I learned from years of training in Classical music, artistic gymnastic and Kung Fu, and the stage was set (no pun intended haha) for what was to eventually become My unique style as a Professional Dominatrix.

What i seeK
  From you

What i seeK
 
From you

Whether you are a sub  passing by or a slave intending to perhaps committing to long term Training, the first INESCAPABLE step is an ASSESSMENT through which your willingness to fully surrender your free will to Mistress will be established, thus  switching the focus from your own ego (and self gratification), towards the satisfaction of Mistress's needs and demands. I only will be in charge of your gratification, WHEN snd IF i decide you deserve it, whilst all your energy will be channelled towards ONE SIMPLE TASK: OBEYiNG MiSTRESS's EVERY COMMAND and EVERY DESIRE, WITHOUT EVER QUESTIONING them;you will quickly realise how liberating and elating this process becomnes. Mistress has HER OWN REASONS and, REGARDLESS, subs or slaves MUST NOT PREOCCUPY their little insignificant minds over the WHY and WHAT; FURTHERMORE, a submissive at heart would instinctively draw pleasure from making Mistress happy, feel satisfaction at the idea of fulfilling Her every wish AND experience the innate compulsion to seek Her acceptance and approval. CONSEQUENTLY, THERE'S A HUMONGOUS DIFF BETWEEN genuinely SUBMISSIVE INDIVIDUALS, and TOPS with an intrigue for a little kinky sex. QUITE SIMPLY, IF YOU BELONG to the latter group, FUCK OFF. I RESPECT YOUR NATURE AND CHOICES BUT I'D EXPECT YOU TO EQUALLY RESPECT MINE, SO DO NOT BOTHER ME. THINGS WOULDN'T WORK OUT. I EXPECT COMPLETE AND UTTER OBEDIENCE, SUBMISSION AND DEVOTION, THUS, AGAIN, PISS OFF. SCRAM. BOUNCE. SPLIT.

once determined you are genuinely submissive, chemistry levels must be outstanding to be accepted into one of my correction programs (and being worth my extra time and efforts).

 Then, provided after your ASSESSMENT SESSION I DO deem you suitable for one of My CORRECTION PROGRAMS, your Fetish Journey  is a high speed train set on a path following a downward spiral, and your true-inner self is anything but near...so shall you be ready to dig further, the next stop is unlocking what your subconscious almost certainly (and very deviously) hid behind misleadingly fictitious lines of reasoning; this is WHY I am QUITE PARTIAL to favouring LONGER TRAINING PROGRAMS, constituted of REGULAR Sessions unfolding over a SET PERIOD of TIME - ratrher than ONE-OFF Sessions (as long as the chemistry shared is exceptional, naturally). As Mistress leads you (at your pace)through all the several different ACTIVITIES you wish to explore further via a path She uniquely customises according to your Kinks and goals, you will quickly learn the benefits of beginning the next Session where the previous one ended, providing a continuity towards an INTENSITY CLIMAX ONLY POSSIBLE THROUGH EACH OTHER'S INTIMATE KNOWLEDGE and complete trust.

IF you DO follow Mistress on a journey BEGINNING with the acceptance of  your   deepest, animalistic and darkest Fetishes as triggers for arousal, even if they involve fear, violence, pain, submission or degradation (amongst many others), She will provide you with a SAFE ENVIRONMENT and the tools to DIGEST, EXPAND and EVOLVE your TOP KINKS, as well as EXPERIMENTING with all unfamiliar  Fetrishes that further intrigue your fascination.

I do NoT

 CoMPRoMiSe...

BeFoRE you EVeN CoNsiDER CoNtActiNG MistReSs, YOU MUST

Be READY to:

 + SHRED your EGO to PiEcES

+ STRiP of ALL MoRALiStic SociAL

CoNVeNtioNs NoNSENsE

+ OBEY(and NEVER EVER question MistResS)

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SO...You THiNK You HAvE wHat it TAkEs to SeRVE Me, RigHt..? 
   ...WRoNG, BiTcH...

...suBs do NOT thiNk, they FoLLoW MistReSs's iRReFuTABLe ORDERs; I ALoNe WiLL DeCiDE if you ARE - or wiLL EVER BE - ReADY.

...I SeT the RuLEs.

x super ImPortant x

are you topping   
from the bottom
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Are you topping
    from the bottom
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Should a sub/or slave experience  recurrent feelings Of resentment tOwards Mistress, maladjusted alienation rather than connection when expected tO obey without questioning, insistent impulse tO lead the Session  instead of taking pleasure in the abandonment that following directions provides and/or relief at being EXONERATED from the burden of responsibility and pressure required by constant decision making, IT'S TIME TO HONESTLY ASK YOURSELF:

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AM I GENUINELY SUBMISSIVE,OR SIMPLY HAVE A KINK FOR LEATHER/PVC/LATEX AND HOT DOMINANT "LOOKING" WOMEN (euphemism for the proverbial "HOOKER-WITH-A-WHIP"), BUT STILL ENJOY BEING A 'TOPPING-FROM-THE-BOTTOM-ANNOYING-DICK'?"

 

..shall the latter be the case, DO NOT EVEN BOTHER CONTACTING MISTRESS, as YOU ARE EITHER still EXTREMELY CONFUSED ABOUT YOUR ROLE IN BDSM [and NO HARM IN BEING A SWITCH, AS LONG AS YOU'RE 1000000% SUB ONLY WITH MISTRESS and you do not dare asking to switch], OR BLATANTLY A TIMEWASTING FUCK-FACE.

YOU WILL PISS ME OFF IMMENSELY AND I'LL END UP HURTING THE SHIT OUT OF YOU way way WAAAY beyond the acceptable boundaries of safe, sane and consensual

YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED.

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